ESSENCE.com: When you’re asked to offer marriage advice, what’s the first thing you say?
TUNIE: Even though you’re married, you’re still individuals. You still have to grow and nurture your individuality. And what you have to gather is the marriage. Each partner brings his or her own special joy to that marriage and that’s what helps the marriage grow. You have to continue to grow and evolve as individuals in order for your marriage to evolve. It takes two pillars to support a structure. If those two pillars become one, you have a structure that teeters.

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